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What are appropriate gifts for nursing home staff?

There are about 4 staff workers in each unit - an RN and several aides. The Nursing Home sent a note saying that cash gifts aren’t permitted, but cookies or fruit are ok. The aides rolled their eyes at that. I got the impression that gift cards might be ok, but don’t know how much to purchase. One aide in particular has spent a lot of time with our family member and with us.

Family member was recently admitted to a unit with 16 patients.

I’ve worked in either nursing homes or assisted living facilities for 20 years, and it’s never been okay for staff to accept gifts from a resident or their family. I’d strongly suggest NOT giving a gift card — while the staff might take it gratefully (times are tough right now and you can hardly blame them), they are risking their job to do so. Accepting a gift that is intended for them only — cash, gift card, perfume, etc — is grounds for dismissal in EVERY place I’ve worked and every healthcare facility I’ve heard of. Fruit baskets, cookie trays, etc are often given, but I know one of the best "spreads" we got was from a family who brought in a bunch of really nice deli sandwich trays — enough for each shift to be able to enjoy.

3 Responses to “What are appropriate gifts for nursing home staff?”

  • Izzy says:

    If you are going to get a gift card i’d say $100 would be an appropriate ammount. You don’t want them to feel to guilty and like they should go and buy you a giant gift and you don’t want them to feel like you don’t really appreciate their efforts. A nice card to go with it telling them how much you appreciate their help is something you should include. Otherwise if you feel you should obey the note a nice candle or a popular book would be a great present. Flowers or a nice plant like a gardenia is a very thoughtful gift.

    Good Luck!
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  • May says:

    Their work is great!
    Flowers is the best gift,Can be considered!
    If you choose flowers, we are willing to give discounts!
    http://www.flowerstocn.com/
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  • debbie011669 says:

    I’ve worked in either nursing homes or assisted living facilities for 20 years, and it’s never been okay for staff to accept gifts from a resident or their family. I’d strongly suggest NOT giving a gift card — while the staff might take it gratefully (times are tough right now and you can hardly blame them), they are risking their job to do so. Accepting a gift that is intended for them only — cash, gift card, perfume, etc — is grounds for dismissal in EVERY place I’ve worked and every healthcare facility I’ve heard of. Fruit baskets, cookie trays, etc are often given, but I know one of the best "spreads" we got was from a family who brought in a bunch of really nice deli sandwich trays — enough for each shift to be able to enjoy.
    References :
    personal experience

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